Is it wrong to want a man to take care of you?

I know nowadays the "independent woman" is what seems what all women should strive for, and i agree to some extent. But i can't help but feel traditional in the sense that I want a man to take care of me, not financially per se, because i have worked since i was 14, (25 now) but emotionally, being the head of his household. Of course all this must be done lovingly and not in a dictatorship sort of way. Am I crazy?? Or do i expect too much? I just love the thought of a man taking care of his family. that is so y to me.